WHY CHOOSE A MICRO-WEDDING?

As a newly engaged couple and with all the information available on the internet, you are probably not lacking for ideas to make your wedding unique and special. Take one look at Pinterest alone and it is easy to get lost in the endless surplus of ideas to incorporate into your wedding. Having options isn’t so much the problem as sorting through all of the advice. There are some great ideas out there, but what is going to be the perfect fit for you and your partner?  Where does a bride even begin to start? 

​You could be in any stage of the wedding planning process. Perhaps your partner got down on one knee last week, maybe you’ve had a ring on your finger for a while now, or maybe you’ve been planning but are now changing your direction due to unforeseen circumstances or a change of heart. Depending on what your situation might be, it’s brought you to one place: the micro-wedding. Maybe you have heard of micro-weddings before, but are still on the fence about whether it’s the right decision for you. When deciding if a micro-wedding is the right fit for your big day, here are a few things to consider.

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​UNLIMITED POSSIBILITIES

The definition of a micro-wedding is a smaller version of a traditionally sized wedding with 25 or fewer guests. This is perfect for couples who want an intimate day to celebrate their love, but still have the benefit of a few elements that come with a traditional wedding.  With a smaller number of guests attending, you can have your choice of venues. Micro-weddings are known for being full of intimate, meaningful moments and the venue plays a huge part in setting the tone for those memories. You can have your pick from scenic outdoor venues to cozy and intimate indoor venues. Whatever look and feel you are going for, there is probably a small venue close by to match it. It is not uncommon to choose a place that holds sentimental value, which adds to the personal touch of the micro-wedding and makes it an unforgettable day for them and their guests.

​DON’T BREAK THE BANK 

Due to the smaller size in nature of micro-weddings, it will significantly shape your wedding budget. Everything about the day is impacted from flowers to the dress, and the venue is no exception. If there is an element to the wedding that is priority for you, a micro-wedding is a great way to have your hypothetical wedding cake and still get to eat it too. You want quality flowers and a lot of them? There’s more money to put toward that piece. Is there a certain photographer you’ve been eyeing who would be a dream-come-true to work with? Maybe that’s where you allot more of your funds. If you opt for a micro-wedding, you will have more options and still keep to your budget.

​PERSONALIZE THE GUEST LIST

It is no secret that one of the most difficult parts to planning a traditional wedding is nailing down the guest list. Your special day can quickly become about ensuring that your Mom’s neighbor’s sister’s daughter gets an invite and less about the elements that matter to you and your partner. Eliminate the back and forth out of the process by opting to plan a micro-wedding. This will naturally limit the guest list which makes it possible to plan a small wedding that is perfect for you while still providing space for family and close friends to attend. Micro-weddings are the perfect solution to plan for a day that’s unforgettable to you and your guests.

• PRO TIP: most of the time, this is less about people being excluded and more about the bride and groom planning a ceremony with the elements that celebrate their love. Because a micro-wedding is smaller and less expensive, this opens up the option for a bigger reception at a later date. Maybe you plan two receptions and each side of the family gets to plan their own party. Each situation is unique and only you will know the best fit for you, but the good news is that there are options! And who doesn’t love more parties?!
  

TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF PLANNING

Micro-weddings are a wedding vendor’s dream! A smaller ceremony allows for more creativity and customizations without the demand of high volume. Even if you are planning your micro-wedding in a short amount of time, it is much easier to create a customized wedding cake, flower arrangements, and reception when there is less of it to plan and make. Most vendors are accustomed to servicing weddings with large guest lists and your small micro-wedding will be a rare chance to spend time on the little details that make all the difference.

The beauty of a micro-wedding is the unlimited amount of freedom over the stylistic choices and elements that your ceremony could include... but only if you want it to. Take the time to understand what is most important to you and know that going into the planning. If you are finding it difficult narrowing the process down, a good place to start is contacting wedding planners who specialize in mico-weddings.  The team at Custom Weddings of Colorado have a great free resource with all the things you will need to make the micro-wedding of your dreams a reality!

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Author:  Jessie Erickson

Jessie Erickson has been writing professionally for almost 10 years and currently resides in the Midwest with her husband and two small daughters. Once a bride herself, Jessie is passionate about leveraging her own experience to bring relevant and creative ideas to busy brides in the midst of planning their own weddings! Whether you choose to elope or throw a party for your family and close friends, she's got you covered with all the facts you need to create the most perfect day for your small wedding